How to approach your secret admirer

Kyamanywa Julius

Every right thinking man would like to fall in love with a beautiful babe. Wherever she is; whether she is seated at a table next yours, in the same take away, or in a group of cuties at a party, the contemplation of approaching her traverses our minds. But should time for approaching come, we merely sit back and imagine that it is not the correct time to launch a manifesto.Most guys fear to approach women simply because they run short of ideas on how to go about it, more especially on the street. Firstly, you only have a few moments to make a courageous move, unlike a dance club, where you have all night to break the ice. Secondly, because you're in a not so welcoming environment, some women might be afraid of your ways.
Unfortunately, some men don't realize that certain factors will deter a woman from accepting an advancement or invitation from a total stranger. Here are the top 10 common mistakes men make when approaching a woman: Forgetting a woman's comfort zone. Just because you know that you're a nice guy, that doesn't mean she will too. It is important for you to realize that most women will be on their guard when you first approach them. This is normal, and the important thing is for you to come across as a harmless guy. A little humor usually helps. The second biggest error most men make is that they don't give women enough credit and respect. Most men think that they can fool a woman into giving them their number. Listen, women know that you're trying to pick them up, so don't beat around the bush. Be direct and let them know exactly what you want. By doing so, you'll come across as a confident and straightforward man.Approaching without a plan .Some people can improvise successfully, but regardless of the case, having a plan always helps your chances of coming across as a person she might consider dating
Acting like a pervert. It just seems that men keep on sabotaging any good chances they have by keeping their eyes aimed down at a woman's breasts. Instead, keep your eyes locked onto hers. You want her to think that you're the knight in shining armor that’s going to romantically sweep her off her feet rather than a dog that’s just sniffing any
The nature of gifts to give her
Old Men have always been into buying gifts for the woman in their life. For these types of relationships however you need to be careful when and what type of gift you give. Gifts should be inexpensive and fun. If you try to give an expensive gift the woman may feel as though you are getting more serious than she is ready to be. This can ruin a great fling or relationship.
Giving gifts the day after a date is a great way to say thanks for the good time. A small bouquet of flowers or candy will be welcome in any relationship as a thank you for time you enjoyed spending with each other. It is best to keep these gifts little and inexpensive.
Some fabulous bed room stuff
One great way to avoid mediocrity and keep sex spicy hot is to learn how to make love outside of the bedroom. No, I’m not talking about making love on the kitchen counter or dining room table. I’m talking about making love with your woman in a non-sexual way. If she regularly prepares supper, do you ever ask her if she needs help? If she is the one that normally does the dishes, do you regularly do them instead? Do you help her around the house? Do you touch her in non-sexual ways? Do you ever kiss her outside the bedroom? I promise you, the better you learn to make love to her outside of the bedroom, the better she will make love with you inside the bedroom. If she is resentful for the things you do (or don’t do) outside the bedroom, how can she give herself to you fully and excitedly in the bedroom?Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to "nice" guys? Of course you have. Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"... but for some reason they were never romantically interested in you. What's going on here? It's actually very simple. Women don't base their choice of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful gut level attraction to them. And guess what?Being a nice guy won't make a woman feel that powerful attraction to you. And being nice won't make a woman choose you. I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to accept... but get over it. Until you accept this fact and begin to act on it, you'll never have the success with women that you want.
What do most guys do when they meet a woman that they really like... but she's just not interested? Right! They try to "convince" the woman to feel differently. Well, I have news for you: You will never change how a woman "feels" when it comes to attraction! You cannot convince a woman to feel differently about you by means of "logic and reasoning." Think about it. If a woman doesn't "feel it" for you, how in the world do you expect to change that feeling by being "reasonable" with her? But we all do it. When a woman just isn't interested, we beg, plead, chase, and do our best to change her mind.